Submit a question for Brian to answer on a future YouTube Live Q&A at! In order to write about men effectively, I spend a lot of time around men. As soon as a guy drops the “I don’t want a relationship” card, instead of his value instantly going down, which would make sense, his value instantly goes up in a woman’s eyes. Read more: 5 women share when they find their man the sexiest. Of course, we don’t mean that she doesn’t get to be busy. If you call or text and she ALWAYS takes hours to get back to you, and you know she isn’t insanely busy, then you, obviously, aren’t important to her – especially if her phone is always glued to her hand. 100 + Never Have I Ever Questions For Couples, 35 Long-distance Relationship Activities To Bond, Love At First Sight: 8 Signs It’s Happening, 21 Ways To Tell Someone You Love Them Without Saying It, 11 Examples Of Self-Sabotaging Behaviours That Ruin Relationships, 8 People Define Unconditional Love In Beautiful Ways. If she is just shy and gradually warming up to you, give her time and get to know her a bit better. Trust us, it’s better to be a failure in love than ‘just another creepy dude.’ She is playing hard to get by not texting back. Brian talks about all of this, and goes into letting go and moving on. If a woman doesn’t text you back for 3 weeks, is she playing hard to get? While we’re on the subject of chasing, I want to mention that you should never, ever, chase after a guy. If someone comes at you forcefully and is desperate to be your friend, you feel put off by it. It’s safe to say that most of us are guilty of this. Unfortunately, the reason a lot of women can’t get a guy to commit is because they discard the ones who are able to give them commitment, and are drawn to the ones that won’t or can’t. The men who end up committing intensely are the ones who see the woman as their partner, the woman who “gets” them, the woman who’s on their side, the woman they escape to, the woman they love being around, the woman who lights up their world …. You will know if she is losing interest or playing hard to get. (Q&A sessions are held regularly on Thursdays at 6 PM. She has let a few of these situations drag on for years! Especially such a young girl (18) as the viewer is asking about would never go three weeks without a phone, but really, most people these days wouldn’t go that long without a phone. Believe it or not, women can see right through you at times. All Rights Reserved. Submit a question for Brian to answer on a future YouTube Live Q&A at! But, then he disappears again. The fact is, if you don’t feel good about yourself, nothing he does will ever be enough. I’m going to pass this book on to one of my best friends now!” — Aubrey,, […] Original source courtesy of Here […], […] This Is Why You’re Wrong About Playing Hard To Get – […], […] Source: This Is Why You’re Wrong About Playing Hard To Get […], […] boneheaded advice, in my opinion.